There is that special moment when two people click, rather than simply meet. Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Crown Business, $ (p). The following summary of Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman’s book ‘Click – The magic of instant connections’ is courtesy of Paul Arnold. The Book: Click: The Magic of Instant Connections by Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman, Broadway Books, $ Hardcover, Pages, June.

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You want to be in a place where you feel mastery and at the same time challenged and at the same time present enough to pay attention to the other people in the surrounding.

They were seasoned business executives. A few feet make a big difference.

Whether it is with a total stranger, or a coworker as we work on a project, or a loved one, that sensation of connecting is almost magical. To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up.

The rest of the book does not have to do anything with instantaneous connection and focuses on the well-known factors of proximity or similarity instead. Want to Read Currently Reading Read.

That Magical Instant Connection Explained. I wanted the information so I could use it in my characterizations, but it’s also brilliant for every other aspect of life where we interact with people. This is just the kind of book that I like: Oir attended 15 lectures, another 10, the third 5 and the last none. Where maybe you have to sit a little bit closer to each other?

It was entertaining, and the stories were engaging. If I dissolved it all, would I be able to dependably create that kind of click with somebody? But being popular does not mean you experience the ‘magical’ feeling described early on with everyone, just that you’re likable, and this intangible ‘clicking’ and friendship is akin to falling and love versus attraction – in the right area, but not the same thing.


You can actually be somewhere in the middle of that vulnerability continuum and often that builds a little bridge. Sometimes, however, those connections are clixk powerful and extraordinary. But as an insider of one of those teams where everyone just clicked, I felt we did twice as much more work than ot Really loved this book. I can actually see that.

Lo and behold, you are twice as likely to give money. The first element is vulnerability, and this is completely counter true because we believe that in business the less vulnerable you are the more powerful you are and vulnerability usually equals weakness and yet when we are vulnerable with people, people return vulnerability to us.

How To Click With People

You meet someone at a party or say hello to a new co-worker, and things just click. Did you by the way click with your wife, were you someone who as soon as you saw you wife it was love at first sight, or did lcick take a while? I think I mostly enjoyed this book because it came to me at a time where I wanted to read more about this topic, it’s a relatively quick read and the association charts are neat.

It was more like a really brafmman experience.

Click – The magic of instant connections

Not a bad thing, but not what I want to spend an hour on either. The Brafmans’ findings are based on research scattered across psychology, sociology and neuroscience, but the data is presented via stories, not dry statistics.


I sat through two weeks… it was a lot of fun in New York, with the Executive Producer there. When I used them, I cclick a description of the design I needed and how much I was willing to pay. Sit even a couple of chairs away, and the chance of forming a friendship roi rapidly.

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Summary of Ori Brafman and Rom Brafman’s book ‘Click – The magic of instant connections’

Toward the end of the meeting, as Paul stood before the group, he noticed, out of the corner of his eye, a folded note being passed around, brqfman person to person. They fluff these examples with some unsurprising study conclusions people prefer those similar to themselves! He looked up, searching for a nod from the note’s author.

Toward the end of the evening, the intensity of their interaction was difficult to ignore.

How To Click With People – with Ori Brafman – Mixergy

But having already been one of the best 4 teams in the country twice before, actually winning it didn’t seem much of a stretch, yet you would think this was the greatest shock in the history of sports reading this. So, going into brafmam with that frame of mind you can help create some flow into the situation. How did that make you feel? The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior. The trick is forgoing conversations about the weather in favor of more probing questions.